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Don’t be Scared by a Cock Ring!!

Posted: Mar 20 2016

If you are intimidated by the looks of a vibrating cock ring, then I can see your point. There are so many different types on the market with some looking like they’d inflict pain, not pleasure, so I can completely understand if you or your partner have thought they are not the sex toy for you. 

As the old saying goes though “don’t judge a book by its cover”; as a couples toy, the cock ring (or gentleman’s ring if you’d prefer) can benefit both of you, allowing you to equally share in the pleasure.

Benefits

For You:  As the vibrating part sits snug against your clitoris, you can enjoy him penetrating whilst at the same time your clitoris is being seduced by erotic vibrations.

For Him: He will benefit from the same vibrations you are feeling, creating ripples of sensation along his penis. The ring will also slightly reduce the blood flow coming back out of his penis, often making his erection a lot firmer. You may also find that if he has a few issues going flaccid before ejaculating, the ring can help him last the full course – regardless, he should also find his orgasms are a lot more intense.

Putting on the Ring

You can either put the ring over his erect penis or alternatively try stretching it over both the penis and scrotum. You can use a little water based lube for extra comfort if you like, though the silicon on our cock rings is super stretchy so you shouldn’t find either approach difficult.

Once on, keep the vibrating part towards his torso so when you start having sex this section will press against your most sensitive area.

Best Position When Using a Cock Ring

Best Position When Using a Cock Ring

This is without a doubt, the missionary.  There’s a reason why we all fall back to this old faithful, plain and simple, it works! It is worth remembering though that not only is it a great position to use with a cock ring, it is also really sexy and intimate, your faces will be so close you can make a lot of eye contact and get some great snogging in at the same time!

As the toy is designed to touch your clitoris then you need him facing you and to have his body pressing firmly against yours.  The majority of the work has to be done by him (sorry guys – it’ll be worth it though I promise), you should lay on the bed with him on top and you can either have your legs around his back, flat on the bed or your knees high, legs bent with him gently rocking inside you and keeping the vibrating part against your clitoris as much as possible.

If you want to control the pace, get him to pull out slightly to take the ring away from your clitoris, get him to make small thrusts into the lower part of your vagina and massage against your G-Spot. 

Keep alternating between each of these erogenous zones for an unbelievably hot session!

A slight variation to this classic is for you to bring your legs together underneath him, creating a tighter grip around his penis, thereby giving greater stimulation for both of you.

There are of course plenty of other positions to try with a cock ring. Just remember you are looking for ones where the vibrating part of the ring makes contact with your clitoris.

Caring for your Ring

Cock rings are of course safe to use with a condom, though it is advisable to remove the condom first before you try to take off the ring so as to avoid any spilt semen and as with any sex toy, after each use it is important to clean using an antibacterial toy cleaner or with warm soapy water.

I hope I’ve managed to sway you into giving one ago.  Couples toys are amazing fun and can inject a real kick into your sex life. If you have got any top tips – we would love to hear them.

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